We are learning that procrastination is not a cause but an effect. We as people wrath our minds around past events that have caused us pain so we hold ourselves back because we do not want to feel that pain. We are afraid to be successful because it would require work and we want to control our lives outcome which in some cases can be good but most of the time it hinders our progression. We become analytical and bitter full of regret because we did not get out of our comfort zone and do the things we wanted to. I concede that there are things we should not do but other things like being successful,earning enough money to have your family comfortable, and reaching the goals we have set!
There are so many people out there that their sole purpose is suck the life out of those who work hard to get success and many achieve this because people are use to hearing it. We are addicted to the disappointment we are addicted to procrastination. We need to learn to shut those feeling out, shut the analytical thoughts out  so we can accomplish those goals that would bring happiness and we can feel and use intuition and listen to inspiring people and say yes I can do that. I am going to do that and then DO IT!!
We are children of the Most High God! He Wants the VERY best for us. If we continue to be humble and seek guidance and counsel from Him then why would He not give us the things we most desire? We are weighted down by our needs and our overwhelming. Just STOP!! I do not need to hear all the ways I can fail I KNOW THEM!! I have thought of them over and over again. STOP thinking and take action! Be the mother you want to be. Be the successful person you want to be. Be that compassionate person you strive to be. JUST DO IT! "What-e’er thou art, act well thy part!" Be the virtuous person you have always wanted to be. Don't think too much just go and do the things the Lord would have you do! Teach your children to do the same!! Teach them Who they are show them who they can become! Teach them to block the never ending saying "I can't"  You can and you must to live, to know you are worth success to, know you are worth the endless blessings of our Father in Heaven. Heavenly Father knows each of us and knows where our hearts are and what we strive to become and how we will and have made mistakes. Move past them and He will help us be better and accomplish our worthy goals! :)
I say this in the name of Jesus our beloved Savior Amen.

https://www.lds.org/liahona/2013/05/we-are-daughters-of-our-heavenly-father?lang=eng

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